Attraction to Your Psychedelic Space-Holder

Feeling attracted to someone who holds space for your journey is a natural experience that can sometimes arise. 

As these sacred medicines dissolve the ego and open us to greater feelings of love, connection, and unity, it is quite understandable that these feelings could be projected upon the person holding space for the journey. 

If you find yourself feeling this way post-journey, we’d like to first normalize this experience. It is natural - AND - we also want you to know that the qualities you are attributing to the other person, are really inside of you. 

During/after an experience of such great expansion, it makes sense that you could have feelings for the person holding space for the journey. 

Perhaps you see them as loving, beautiful, powerful, warm, accepting, etc.....though, they are simply reflecting back to you all of the qualities you hold within yourself. 

This person was not the cause of your experience. They did not give you the journey you had. Your work with the medicine was what offered you the healing. The medicine and YOU were the cause of your experience - everything in you that is being uncovered, discovered, and opening more deeply. You are waking up and returning home to the truth of who you are. 

This person held space for you, and they may be a beautiful soul, but remember, they are also human. 

When we project ideals onto someone, we are not holding their entire being, which includes the full spectrum of what being human is. 

View the person who held space for you as a mirror for yourself. It was not them who created your sense of openness, expansion, awareness, and deepest compassion and love...it was you all along. 

So again, this is a perfectly natural experience to have, and as you begin to integrate these feelings, remember: the love you are resonating with right now, that love is what you are.